Life and its complexities

HI after two weeks of gap i am back this time i wont write something personal rather what i feel about life and other things related to it. well last week i had my internal exam and i got good marks life is going fine but the complexities are always there .

first what i feel we always have great desire means i want to be like this , i want that car , i want to earn a Lott and etc but many a people rather most of them fail to achieve why? because i feel there is deserve and desire funda means what ever you desire wont come to you until or unless u deserve that or in other words your efforts are strong enough for that thing .

secondly, why we feel sad , i feel sad because of expectation, it is very simple for example take he case of our Indian cricket team when ever Sachin scores run for India we feel good but when he not we feel sad because we have high expectation for him that he will definitely make runs and when and underdog player from whom we have no expectation if even don't perform we don't feel bad and if he does we feel happy and have higher expectation for next time. similarly in our personal relationship we have lots of expectation from our partner and if those are not fulfilled we feel disappointed so i feel if you want to be happy no need to expect any thing from any body , if by chance they do something for you, you are in win win situation.

thirdly, i feel we always busy in thinking about the irrelevant things means which are nothing to deal with us , for example whats going in match , what India should do, will that movie will be hit ..why i don't have good hairs etc , though the last one is concerned to you but you can hardly change it , and in this thinking we loose our focus on our work , and fail to deliver our best .
so i feel we should not think and waste our focus , best think to avoid thinking is to get completely soaked in the work by making the work more interesting.

i have various other things to discuss here, related to all these but that is for next post till then enjoy this and let me know what you feel about my writing whats your opinion about all this.onething more i would like to tell you about my net friend i got to know about her through orkut and she want me to write about her shweta (name is changed) you are very sweet, caring don't get worried about the future , i know you have bright future just carry on effort and today is your birth day so have blast ..take care ....

some quotations you may like

"Energy and persistence conquer all things."

"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time."

"You must be the kind of man who can get things done. But to get things done, you must love the doing, not the secondary consequences."